i've been slowly trying to figure out what this relationship thing is supposed to be about. I feel a lot of times that I am compromising for the other person because I'm in loving and I'm willing to do anything to stay that way. But after this advice I read of okayplayer.com, I think I've been in the wrong.
Here's the advice: (link)
"If your his girl friend.......be his girlfriend.....STOP being a wife to a man that aint married you...."
You see at sometimes I feel my girl is holding back on things like cooking, being there when I get home from work, buying me stuff, etc. But after this advice, I understand now. She says all the time that she knows if we were to get married she'd be doing those things all the time but I didn't want to believe her. Now I'm assuming she's taking this theory to heart, which makes a lot of sense. I feel stupid for not recognizing it. I should be doing the same thing. I am not her husband, therefore I should not have to worry about so many things like her bills, her car, etc.
So a new question arises. What's my purpose as a boyfriend?
I think I have an idea.
2 comments:
why buy the cow, when the cheese is moldy and the milk is sour?
That's a good one.
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