Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Thoughts unheard of

The toughest thing to deal with my queen to be is waiting on her to make decisions. It's very different for me. I'm the type that likes decisions to be made efficiently: breakdown the problem, ask questions, then decide on the best. I'm not necessarily deciding too fast but I think all decisions can be made in a timely fashion. My girl doesn't think this way.

Her decisions take time, the right emotions, and a sense for what other people are going to decide. I can't stand it because every time we go out to eat it's a big ordeal to order. Or every time we need to figure out our next move her answer is,  "i don't know. "

We are clearly to opposite people. And I'm hoping this is why we will make it in the end. We draw on each others strengths. This is a big decision we're making right now. And I have no idea who is making it.

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Monday, October 24, 2011

say it loud...

MY FIANCE DRIVES ME CRAZY!!

Things done changed. I'm not just getting married, I'm changing my blog site address and profile. Why? I'm scared sh!tless of blogging about problems and issues I face with our relationship. Normally, I try not to with this blog. But normally I have other things on my mind. Not anymore. Now its all about colors, catering, and cakes. Oh Lord.

So now that I think she won't be able to read this anymore. I can gripe (big grin on my face now). I will still try to speak on other issues. I don't want to make it seem like I'm a relationship blogger. There's other sites for that: verysmartbrothas.com.

So get ready for me to be back on the scene.